I have a girlfriend, but I caught feelings for someone else. What should I do?
I would be as open and honest as possible with your girlfriend. You really have to take time to think about how much your relationship with your girlfriend is worth to you. If it’s important to you, then stay with her. Or, try to figure out a way for you and her to talk less or just stay friends.
I just started dating this guy, and I’m starting to realize we aren’t as compatible as I thought we would be. What can I do?
Try talking to him about slowing things down a bit, even if things are already slow. This can help you get to know him better before you get too far into anything. If things still aren’t working well between the two of you, be open about how you’re feeling.
I’m starting to realize who my true friends are, which isn’t leaving me with very many friends. Is there anything I can do?
You could try to branch out and meet new people through, say, clubs. This will help expand your circle and get you away from those other “friends”. It also really helps to try to talk to those friends and figure out if there’s a reason they are acting a certain way or if it’s just who they are.
I’m paranoid that all of my friends hate me. What do I do?
Talk to them. See if something’s up. If they’re your friends, they should be able to be open with you. If they still seem “off” after that conversation, I would be a little more careful with them until you know if there’s something going on or not.
I’m doing really bad in a couple of my classes. What can I do to get my grades up?
Try utilizing different methods of studying. “Space studying” is a lot better than cramming for tests, so when you have tests coming up, start studying for them a few days in advance in order to process that information into your long term memory. You can also try getting a tutor or talking to a friend who is good at the subjects you are having trouble with.
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